“My friends are my scoffers;
My eye weeps to God.”
As I read through the Bible this year, I’ve been posting some of my reflections and various insights of others on the passages. For the book of Job, I have written extensively (and intensively!) on suffering, and on helping and encouraging those who suffer, with Job’s friends, unfortunately, providing negative examples after the second chapter.
I want you to know these posts are being written in real-time suffering. They’re not coming from after the fact, but from the midst of my own valley of affliction. I’ve heard the lectures and moralistic platitudes that Job heard, and you also may have endured them.
I consider the book of Job to be God’s gift to those who suffer intensely, without apparent or traceable reason, because in Job we hear the words of a man, a good man, who struggles in pain with his doubt and his longing to trust God. Job’s horrific circumstances drive him to grapple with life at its depths. There are no glib answers here, and the fact that there are no glib answers means our pain is not trivialized and that in turn offsets the depersonalization that suffering afflicts on our heart because we see that what we are going through is taken seriously by God.
I cannot tell you how comforting I have found the book of Job as I have been writing on it because I have heard the speeches Job heard, and I have know the emotions and struggles he felt. His eloquent, and at times biting words, in both their expression and intensity give words to my own feelings. Indeed, when I cannot find solace anywhere else, I still find it in Job.
We serve as lights, you and I, as we persevere in the midst of anguish, to those in darkness who are crushed and broken by evil. As they are, we, too, are caught up in living in a world that groans in its rebellion against God, and ofttimes reasons for suffering are beyond ourselves and our understanding. We demonstrate an authenticity to others when we don’t hand out platitudes, but instead with love identify with them and in our patience and endurance point them to God who is full of compassion and mercy. We are also an example and pattern of walking with God to our fellow believers.
Finally, and most importantly, as we persevere in our suffering—even though we wrestle with our doubts and despair—we prove ourselves servants of God. Do you know what God calls Job over and over again? “My servant Job”. At the beginning of the book and at the end of the book, God gives Job that accolade. You and I, my dear friend, as our eye weeps to God in our suffering, and as we bear the scoffing of friends, can also be servants of God; there is no greater purpose, there is no greater praise.
“Therefore be patient, brethren, until the coming of the Lord. The farmer waits for the precious produce of the soil, being patient about it, until it gets the early and late rains. You too be patient; strengthen your hearts, for the coming of the Lord is near. Do not complain, brethren, against one another, so that you yourselves may not be judged; behold, the Judge is standing right at the door.
“As an example, brethren, of suffering and patience, take the prophets who spoke in the name of the Lord. We count those blessed who endured. You have heard of the endurance of Job and have seen the outcome of the Lord’s dealings, that the Lord is full of compassion and is merciful.”
Here are links to the posts with a sentence or two from each. Because the posts build on each other, I’d suggest starting with Job 1–2, and reading from the beginning.
“Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction so that we will be able to comfort those who are in any affliction with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.”
2 Corinthians 1:3–4
When they heard of Job’s grief, “they came…to sympathize with him and comfort him.”
His friends search for a defect in Job that will explain his suffering—not to alleviate his anguish, but to relieve their own fears.
While pious words present a façade of spirituality, there is no comfort there for pain.
Job’s need was to believe in God’s goodness, benevolence and personal care for him in the face of God’s inscrutable sovereignty in allowing his suffering.
From Job’s perspective he is at the point of finding no help from these men and believing there is none to be had from God.
Someone like Job, however, who suffers without overt cause or comprehension, needs help trusting God in the face of no explanation of his affliction.
Those who suffer do not need pat answers, indeed, there are none to be had, for you cannot explain the inexplicable, and to attempt to do so is to find yourself in ashes and clay territory.
Job is grappling with life at its depths as he struggles with his inability to bring into accord his horrific circumstances with his understanding of God.
It’s shocking to see the way in which Bildad doesn’t even take the time before he speaks to think about who Job is and what he knows about Job from the past. He has no empathy for Job and doesn’t bother to understand Job and to consider whether or not his words are even appropriate. Job is the invisible man to Bildad.
Job feels God considers him an enemy, and he tells of his abandonment by relatives and friends and being despised by all whom he knows.
Eliphaz’ words reveal the sin of his own heart, not Job’s, because making these unfounded charges reveals he would rather lie than acknowledge that his explanation for Job’s sorrows is wrong.
Job knows Eliphaz’ ideas about God’s providence are wrong; Job can look at his own life and his affliction, and he has also seen the prosperity of the wicked, and the reality is that sometimes the righteous suffer greatly, while those who are evil do not.
Bildad’s purpose in speaking was obviously not to help Job or provide counsel or insight—it was more of a feeble protest to Job, as if Bildad knew in advance what he would say was insufficient—hence Job’s scathing opening in chapter 26.
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“For God, who said, “Light shall shine out of darkness,” is the One who has shone in our hearts to give the Light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Christ.
“But we have this treasure in earthen vessels, so that the surpassing greatness of the power will be of God and not from ourselves; we are afflicted in every way, but not crushed; perplexed, but not despairing; persecuted, but not forsaken; struck down, but not destroyed; always carrying about in the body the dying of Jesus, so that the life of Jesus also may be manifested in our body. For we who live are constantly being delivered over to death for Jesus’ sake, so that the life of Jesus also may be manifested in our mortal flesh. So death works in us, but life in you.
“But having the same spirit of faith, according to what is written, “I BELIEVED, THEREFORE I SPOKE,” we also believe, therefore we also speak, knowing that He who raised the Lord Jesus will raise us also with Jesus and will present us with you. For all things are for your sakes, so that the grace which is spreading to more and more people may cause the giving of thanks to abound to the glory of God.
“Therefore we do not lose heart, but though our outer man is decaying, yet our inner man is being renewed day by day. For momentary, light affliction is producing for us an eternal weight of glory far beyond all comparison, while we look not at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen; for the things which are seen are temporal, but the things which are not seen are eternal.”
2 Corinthians 4:6–18
And when we enter that eternal glory, we will hear the Lord Jesus say to us, “Well done, good and faithful servant.”
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Job and his friends, Ilya Yefimovich Repin: Public Domain.
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